Hey guys!
I hope you are all doing well. I say this phrase every week, at the start of every blog however, I genuinely hope that whatever is going on in your life works itself out and if all is going well then I hope it stays well.
Life can take an odd turn especially when we least expect it. Sometimes we get so busy and don’t pay attention to the most important things and people in our life, and before we can even ground ourselves everything changes. Just like a game, one decision and the results will be different. This can change can be for the better or sometimes even for the worse and once we’ve made our move we can’t go back, like a game of chess.
I understand that some people may think that seeing the bad scenario in your head may make you a pessimist. I personally don’t believe that, I believe that it is preparing your mind for what may happen and as long as you don’t dwell on the situation and put yourself through it twice I think that it is ok. You may have someone in your life one day and think the world of them and think they will be there forever perhaps, but what is forever? So when somebody promises you they will not leave you, have the subconscious thought that they might but don’t let that thought affect the relationship/friendship.
In the same way if you have interviewed for a job and think you aced the interview and will probably, most likely get the job. You should also think what if I don’t get this job do I have a back up in life? Make sure you are protected in life, make sure you are able to help yourself no matter what the outcome of any situation may be.
Expect the unexpected because you never know what when what you expect becomes nothing but a conjecture.
So if you miss somebody, tell them before something unexpected happens and then you regret your ego and ignorance.
Laugh some more before the unexpected happens and you can’t laugh.
Love, before the unexpected happens and you forget how to.
Have fun and do things that make you happy before the unexpected happens and you have lost the opportunity.
When you expect the unexpected you won’t get let down by your expectations as much because you will have also imagined the opposite scenario. So there is no need to limit your expectations the best are also be aware of the endless amounts of consequences.
Keep your smile on.
Thanks :)
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