Toxicity

Hi guys!

Hope you're all well.

Toxic- This word may bring back some memories for some of you, it may remind you of a person or people or a couple in a netflix show/movie- it's got to be Tessa and Hardin for me😂(After reference)

Am I wrong to say that shows shine a lot of light onto toxic relationships in show and could to an extent be idolising them? up for debate I guess. But really, aren't the main couple always toxic? and despite this destructive relationship they always end up with their happy ever after. I'm afraid reality isn't quite like that unfortunately, toxic relationships are quite dangerous and escaping one is the best thing you can ever do.

I understand the need to go back to the same person time and time again (attachment issues) but there comes a point where ties need to be severed for the good of both people, you need to stop forcing something because caring for them more will never mean they will change the way they behave- lesson learnt this year✔

Will it hurt? yes.

Will you hate them? possibly.

Will you get better at dealing with the loss? ABSOLUTELY!!

What is toxic?
When you want somebody in your life but also can't treat them right. 

Why do people act this way you may think?

- They like the security, the feeling of having you there always and it's a vicious cycle, a hard one to escape at that. You love them so stay but are not completely happy, but stay because you find solace in the small moments of happiness and they take advantage of how strong your feelings are for them.

Quite poisonous.

So, next time you find yourself in said situation- LEAVE, it'll be hard believe me I am aware but you were hurting in the friendship/relationship also so why not escape and be hurt a little longer and know for a fact that you will be happy soon.

Thanks :)